Inside the Grief and Relief of Leaving a Denomination

OF COURSE IT all started right around 2016.

That year, the Christian Reformed Church in North America’s synod—an annual meeting of representatives from across regional subdivisions of the denomination in the U.S. and Canada—commissioned a document known as the Human Sexuality Report with the stated goal to “articulate a foundation-laying biblical theology of sexuality” over the course of the next five years. One hot-button issue was same-sex relationships. Up until this point, the CRC had been operating under the guidance established at the synod of 1973, which was that while same-sex attraction shouldn’t be considered sinful, acting on that attraction was.