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Why #NotAllMen Misses the Point

By Chris Chatelaine-Samsen
Misogyny kills, by Jenna Pope at Unarmed Civilian / Flickr.com
Misogyny kills, by Jenna Pope at Unarmed Civilian / Flickr.com
May 29, 2014
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To my fellow men,

I’m sure you are as heartbroken as I am about the killings at UC Santa Barbara by a troubled young man with a misogynistic manifesto. Heartbroken for the community, for the families who lost loved ones, and even for the young man who felt like there was no other way.

Now I’m not much of a “Tweeter” (is that the right word?), but I heard that a group of us has taken to defending ourselves on Twitter with the hashtag #NotAllMen. They want to say that that #NotAllMen sexually assault women. #NotAllMen expect a date to be reciprocated with sex. #NotAllMen harass women for the way they do or don’t look at us. They want to say that we’re not like those other people, that we respect women as equals, not demean them as prizes or products.

Who cares?

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Misogyny kills, by Jenna Pope at Unarmed Civilian / Flickr.com
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