Death Doulas Have a Term for What’s Happening to Our Church and Our Country

Mary Phelps, a grief massage therapist and Shiatsu bodyworker, gives a client a massage on Aug. 28, 2023, in Chicago. Phelps’ work focuses on getting the nervous system to calm down. Phelps is a member of the Chicago Death Doula Collective. Credit: TNS/ABACA/Reuters.

I’ve been caring for the dying since I was 22 years old. Before the rise in death doula work, I was a caregiver for my mother, who died of primary peritoneal carcinoma at 58 –years old. I sat with her during her chemotherapy appointments. I took notes at appointments with doctors. I created a rapport with her medical team so that I could be in the best position to advocate for her up until the very end.

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