Thanks so much for this review. It gets well beyond the flowery, fan-driven stuff that so often permeates Christian "nice" culture.
Like you, the most concerning part of the book is that so many people are buying a marriage book by people who aren't experts. Being married and being a popular megachurch pastor does not make you an expert. And in the introduction Mark claims they wrote the book to help people and because they get asked a lot for marriage advice.
Being a married pastor doesn't make you a marriage expert any more than being a nineteen year old basketball star makes you a hall of fame coach.
It says a lot about Christian culture that people would look towards non-experts for advice, and that these non-experts would capitalize financially when they should just refer like most pastors I know to a qualified, trained, licensed counselor.
Official rhetoric has helped fuel an escalation of tension between the United States and Iran. Do recent negotiations mark a change in direction, or just a temporary detour from the highway to military attack?
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Thanks for the well thought out response. I think Mark needs men and women in his life who truly love him and aren't impressed by him.
I'd love for this to be a case where grace overcomes the train wreck.
Thanks so much for this review. It gets well beyond the flowery, fan-driven stuff that so often permeates Christian "nice" culture.
Like you, the most concerning part of the book is that so many people are buying a marriage book by people who aren't experts. Being married and being a popular megachurch pastor does not make you an expert. And in the introduction Mark claims they wrote the book to help people and because they get asked a lot for marriage advice.
Being a married pastor doesn't make you a marriage expert any more than being a nineteen year old basketball star makes you a hall of fame coach.
It says a lot about Christian culture that people would look towards non-experts for advice, and that these non-experts would capitalize financially when they should just refer like most pastors I know to a qualified, trained, licensed counselor.